Empty nest syndrome? Here are 6 tips on how to reclaim your life – and still be there for the kids
When your child secures a place at college, you want to burst with pride. It’s a great time for bonding, as you prepare them for moving away, living with strangers and looking after themselves. But once they’ve been gone for a couple of weeks, and your brain realises they’ve actually flown the nest and aren’t just on holiday, it can really stir emotions.
Suddenly, you have lots more pockets of time – which can be both a good and bad thing. It’s a time of major change, and that can be hard to get your head around.
Wednesday, October 03, 2018
Psychotherapist reveals the seven reasons partners cheat… from changing jobs to Peter Pan syndrome
Toby Ingham is a UKCP registered psychotherapist, member of The Guild of Psychotherapists and The Association of Psychotherapists, and he revealed to Fabulous what the main reasons for cheating are…Toby believes that commitment problems can often lead back to earlier life.
Alyssa Milano defends Netflix show Insatiable over ‘fat-shaming’ controversy
Toby Ingham, a UKCP registered psychotherapist, explains how the original intention of the show likely became lost in translation.
“The criticism is powerful, passionate and hard to argue against. It does seem as though the programme makers may not have thought this through, though that seems unlikely,” he says.
“The criticism picks up on the show making fat a phobic issue that demands ‘female obedience,’ in Woolf’s words. It is hard to come back from that kind of comment. This will stick.
“It is likely that the programme will put pressure on the mental health of young viewers,” he continues.
20 July 2018
How to cope if your family is grieving on Father’s Day
Celebrating Father’s Day can be a difficult time for those who are grieving their loved ones but we have some top advice for the bereaved.
June 17th will be a tricky day for those who are missing their dad on Father’s Day but there are ways to help make the day just that little bit easier.
We spoke to psychotherapist and counsellor, Toby Ingham, about what parents can do to help support their children during a time of grief.
Heart Radio London
15 June 2018
Deferential, nervous but gloriously happy! Body language experts reveal what Meghan’s body language REALLY says about her first outing with the Queen
Psychotherapist Toby Ingham added: ‘The body language of the Queen and Meghan is warm, friendly, they look to be enjoying the time they are spending together.
‘There is formality to the occasion as they step from the train, but the overall tone is relaxed and warm.
‘When sitting together they move in towards each other and enjoy a shared joke. The impression of spontaneity and warmth.’
During the bridge opening ceremony, the Duchess of Sussex was seen fidgeting with her outfit and hair in a rare lapse of poise.
However Mr Ingham offered a different take on Meghan’s ‘fidgeting’ while she was seated next to the Queen, noting it might have been a sign that she was bored of a conversation.
Explaining the behaviour, he said: ‘It appears that the man on Meghan’s right is the cause of her fidgetiness.
‘It looks like she is rather distracted by his interest, information and conversation than anything to do with the Queen.
Unity Blott and Stephanie Linning
14 June 2018
Toby Ingham Reveals How To Use Emotional Intelligence Hacks To Lead And Innovate
Being emotionally literate is about more than remembering your Mum’s birthday – being aware of your own emotions can help you to unlock innovation and be a better leader, writes Toby Ingham for RSNG…
Toby Ingham & Matt Ray
The Rising Man
9 April 2018