What is Psychodynamic Counselling? Psychodynamic counselling considers the mind or psyche as dynamic, one force working upon another which in turn produces different forces. These psychological dynamics shape our thoughts, our views about the world, which in turn shape the … Read more
Patient confidentiality is a fundamental part of psychotherapy and counselling When you go to psychotherapy or counselling you need to have the peace of mind that what you say in your sessions remains private. What you say here stays here, … Read more
“I used to say to myself that a drink would settle my anxiety and help me relax, would settle my nerves. Maybe it used to. But in the long run it just made me more anxious.” Anonymous It is a … Read more
Love is blind, the decisions we make Perhaps you are someone who has made reckless decisions in the name of love. Perhaps you walked out on a long marriage having fallen for someone out of the blue. You wouldn’t have imagined … Read more
Is a Cognitive Approach enough? Cognitive approaches to psychotherapy get a great deal of attention. Are they right for you? You want to change your life and stop repeating the same mistakes and problems. You want to stop having things … Read more
I feel I want to run away I want to get away I want to fly away – Lenny Kravitz There are certain threats that it is better to avoid than to engage with. Faced with danger it is often … Read more
Dissociation, what does it feel like? what does it mean? Dissociation refers to a separation or division that occurs in our experience of consciousness and on-going reality. Dissociation refers to the sense of having moved from one state of awareness … Read more
When we speak of feeling tired of being alone, what are we describing? How do you think about and understand your aloneness? Is it something you have started to feel because of a change in circumstances? Is it an old … Read more
Integrative counselling – developing counselling for you Integrative counselling is counselling that is NOT based upon one particular model (psychodynamic, Jungian, CBT, humanistic, existential, gestalt) instead your counsellor is able to draw upon different models to think and work to … Read more
How do you recognise that you may have an addiction? Alcohol, drug, food, gambling, sex, or porn addiction problem? We might assume that it would be obvious and easy to spot, but it isn’t. With addictions, people ‘use’ drink, or … Read more